Place holders – Kobo eBook

PLACEHOLDERS
Why Do We Date and Marry People We Should Not Be With?
Written by Trevor Saxon

Why do people stay with someone they do not truly see a future with? In Placeholders, Trevor Saxon examines the fears, pressures, and hopes that can lead people to date or marry while their intentions do not match their partner’s. Loneliness, family expectations, financial security, children, chemistry, trust, and the comfort of routine can all influence a person’s choice to stay.

But uncertainty does not always mean someone is being used. Feelings can change, and people can sincerely begin a relationship before realizing they want different lives. The harm begins when one partner hides what they know, allowing the other to build plans around a future that may never come.

Across twenty chapters, Saxon explores the difference between wanting someone and choosing them. He invites readers to ask direct questions, examine promises and patterns, and consider whether both partners understand the relationship in the same way. For some couples, honesty may open a path to repair. For others, it may bring the courage to leave.

At its heart, Placeholders is a call to treat partners as whole peoplewith the truth and freedom to choose the relationship being offered.

Copyright 2026 Trevor Saxon. All rights reserved.